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Stages of Life

Exploring how we can learn from generation to generation and strengthen personal growth as we move through our life cycles

You and your sister never agree on anything. You have such completely opposite philosophies of life that it's almost as though you were probably born in different families and switched at birth, but you likely came from different countries. On the other hand, your best friend had parents who were not at all like yours, but you and she understand one another totally.

So what do we know about this "nature versus nurture" business? How much do the rituals, rules and myths of childhood determine one's outlook on life when you leave home? Why do some people pass easily through the stages of childhood and on into adulthood, while others struggle to learn the tasks of each developmental stage and cycle of life? Why do some people seem to remain firmly stuck in old patterns and others can let the past go by simply choosing to act differently? What makes a hero or heroine respond to the call for action and self-reflection and then, through their struggles, teach us how to live more fully?

In this section we explore these issues and also look closely to how stressful, traumatic events can become transformative experiences, enriching and deepening an understanding of ourselves and others. We begin with this topic because these issues are crucial in coming to terms with the past and moving confidently into the future.

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SECTION INDEX

bulletLife cycles and stages of development

bulletGeneration to generation

bulletDeath and dying as an integral part of life

bulletCaregiving for your loved ones

bulletTransformation through loss and crisis

bulletCoping in the world today

SPECIAL FEATURES

Photo of boy climbing playground equipmentWords of Encouragement

Affirmations for Everyone: Words of Encouragement is a four-minute presentation of affirmations for children and adults created by the Childhood Affirmations Program. If you don't have a current FLASH program, you can download one for free

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Picture of sunriseI Still Remember Them

In the weeks and months after someone you loved has died (or has been taken from you for another reason), it's not surprising that you can be going about your ordinary business when suddenly a thought of that person will break into your consciousness. Much later, however, you continue to remember this person, as shown in this poem of memories of a loved one. An illustrated poem for slower connections and an illustrated poem for faster connections expresses the experience of recovery from loss of someone from whom you've learned much and shared many adventures.

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Picture of orchidsWhen I Am Gone . . .

If we view our lives as part of the entire sweep of history, we will realize that death has always been, and will always be, an integral part of the sweep of humankind. We will also realize that it is not how long we live that matters, but how we live. Thus this poem about the world we will leave behind reminds us of our obligation to future generations. The poem is also illustrated for slower connections and for faster connections.

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Fill-in-the-Blanks Poetry

Transform a crisis or loss into strength and peace of mind with an easy poetry form in Create your own crisis haiku.

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